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Tribute | We remember Patti Ensley
I
have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept
the faith.
Submit a tribute for Patti Ensley.
 Darrell ward <darrell.ward@calgaryscience.ca>
Contributed on October 20, 2009
Patti, thank you for your story. I sit here alone
tonight after a day at the cancer center. My wife Shannon age 50 and myself were told last June 2009 that she has cervical cancer with shots on her lungs stage 4B.
And then the doctor talked time with us, it was like living a nightmare together.
After starting with radiation she is now on the strongest chemo they have, out side of the cancer in her, she is strong and feeling good.
They say Shannon can't beat this, who gave them that foresight, there is no crystal ball here. Shannon is strong and we believe we can live and beat this.
Well we are still here, every day, week, month, year
will be the best.
Thank you Darrell
d <bubblesforyou112078@yahoo.com> from nj
Contributed on June 12, 2009
She is on google. This is how I found her Story.
It is the search engine. Because of Patty there is even earlier detection. Because of Patty I am cancer free. Because of Patty they were able to help me right away. May God Hold her in everyones hearts.
Christina Isham <christinaisham@hotmail.com> from Moorhead MN
Contributed on January 4, 2009
Dear family and friends of Patti, I am sorry your loved one had to keep going through this over and over again. She seemed like an amazing woman, I'm sure she was. I myself just went through the radical hysterectomy for cervical cancer stage 1B. I am now cancer free and hope it stays that way, of course we all do! I am 30 and have twin daughters which are 4yrs old. I appreciate reading Patti's story I am very saddended by it, but to read how she kept on fighting is an inspiration, I can tell she was loved alot for the will to keep on fighting. God Bless you all family and friends, I am sorry for your loss!
janice <js24298@yahoo.com>
Contributed on December 24, 2008
Still missing you, my friend. My love & thoughts are with you, Patti. Love, Janice
Elaine Kinsella from Ireland
Contributed on April 13, 2008
You sounded like an amazing woman,its so unfair what happened,you were very courageous,my thoughts are with you and all your family,god bless,youre an inspiration to people x
Marie <mariehumann@comcast.net> from FLORIDA
Contributed on Febuary 5, 2008
I never knew you, I just read your story, I am saddened by your untimely journey, it just does not seem fair. I thank you for sharing your story, you have helped me and countless others who still have to travel the road ahead. May God bless your family always. Your legacy lives on.
Doreen <smallspuds@hotmail.com> from bc,canada
Contributed on December 31, 2007
sounds like a wonderful amazing lady,,thanks patti for sharing your brave journey,sending you sweet thoughts,,and to your family who must miss u bad!
janice <jspeaker@frontier.net>
Contributed on December 24, 2007
To my courageous friend, Well, its been 3 years today & I still miss you; the sound of your laugh, your inspiring wisdom, compassion, & bravery. You will always live in my heart & I know we will meet again someday. Merry Christmas Patti! Love, Janice
Cynthia Quinones <Allmixedup925@aol.com> from Puerto Rico
Contributed on January 27, 2007
God Bless Patty. She truly inspired me. I am very sorry for your loss.
Tracy
Contributed on August 15, 2005
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have just been diagnosed with stage 1 cervical cancer and because Patty shared her story--I will make every effort to be super aggressive with my doctors to insure we are doing everything asap. I was going to insist on doing everything as least aggressive as possible since I had been caught so early. Thanks to Patty sharing her story, I no longer have that attitude and I realize how dangerous this disease really is. My OBGYN is acting like this is a minor thing--I'm now searching for an oncologist. Thank you and again....I'm so sorry for her loss.
Danny Brooks <dbrooks28@triad.rr.com> from Burlington, North Carolina
Contributed on July 13, 2005
Rather than a tribute to Patti I would like to just say thank you to the people who contributed to this sight for all of your loving words for Patti. Patti was my only sibling and I just discovered this sight a day ago when I typed in her name at random on Google. Although I think of her daily I have been missing her even more lately. I think its due to the shock of actually losing her finally sinking in. She was so inspirational to so many people. I heard so many wonderful words spoken about her at her funeral. I was always so proud of her. She gave unconditionally time after time. I prayed often for God to grant Patti a miracle and after losing her I realize He did. The miracle was the 10 years she received on earth after her initial diagnosis. She did so much with those 10 years that I am still in awe of her. I never heard her utter one word of self-pity. She never compromised her ability to live a normal life. Again, thank you to all of you who took the time to right and I pray that each of you will continue to think of Patti and good luck to each of you in your own battles. Sincerely, Danny Brooks
Pam Phetteplace <pamphetteplace@yahoo.com>
Contributed on January 3, 2005
It saddens me greatly to learn of Patti's passing. We were great phone friends, usually talking at least 2 times a week. Patti was such a fine person, she gave inspiration and encouragement to others, she was there when a person needed to solve a problem. Patti will live on forever in my heart and soul and I will speak with her often when I need to talk to a friend. or just to tell her I love her.
Tim, may you find that time will heal your injured heart and soul. Take pride in the fact that you were a loving and nurturing husband.
Much Love
Pam
Ebony Taylor <ebmyprincess@aol.com> from Philadelphia
Contributed on January 2, 2005
Patti your story truly touched my heart. I too know how it feels to have someone I love suffer and fight through cervical cancer. My aunt a few years ago was diagnosed with cervical cancer. Now I'm happy to say her cancer is in remission. Thank you for being a strong and determined women. You have helped me see that even through the bad weather the sun will shine again. God bless you.
Diane Steel <dgsteel@swva.net> from Floyd, Virginia
Contributed on December 29, 2004
Patti was my dearest friend yet she was someone whom I'd never met face to face. We talked on the phone many, many times. She had the best sense of humor :)) I'll miss those funny phone calls and her caring support. We laughed a lot Patti and I. I'll miss her cute giggles. Patti sure knew how to laugh!! She helped me laugh when my world was at its darkest.
Patti was the strongest person I've ever met. Even while battling recurrences she never complained or waivered. She fought the good fight.
Her favorite saying was: "Don't live your life for cancer, live it in SPITE of cancer!" This is the way Patti lived her life.
I'll miss Patti more than I can express in words. Patti, I'll carry you in my heart forever dear friend.
Tim, you and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Love,
Diane
Piret <pirett@bellsouth.net> from Estonia/WPB
Contributed on December 28, 2004
It is so hard to write about something like this, on 23rd I just sent an electronic christmas card for Patti and Tim (I got to know her over the net little time before I discovered this list, and that was way back in 2000, so we have known each other for quite long time, I had long e-mail friendship with her with lot of encouragement and positive outlook and never-giving-up attitude Patti gave me and everyone on this list, later some phone conversations and although I never got to see her in person, it feels like I have had her in my life for long long time) - and got back a note that she is no longer here with us. This is such a loss for you, Tim, and I just do not find words right and deep enough to say how sorry I am what has happened to her and you and life is totally unfair.
Standing by in your loss and thinking about Patti, a true fighter soul.
She has a special place in my heart forever.
Piret
Georgia P <links@eyesontheprize.org> from Foxborough MA
Contributed on December 27, 2004
Patti was a very active list member and could always be counted on for support and caring. If there was one word I would associate with Patti - it was "HOPE". She never gave up. She had encouraging words for everyone, even while she herself was fighting her own issues.
Tim, we feel your loss. We did not know her as you did, but a special part of our community left when Patti did. I am sure, wherever she is, she is smiling down on you, and encouraging others to always look for the "best there can be" as she did here.
My thoughts remain with you and Patti's family - her pain is over, and I believe she is at peace.
Love,
Georgia (list moderator)
fay spargo <spare@satlink.com.au> from melbourne australia
Contributed on December 27, 2004
Oh dear Tim,
I am so sad to know that Patti has now gone to Heaven. She taught me to look towards the future, to have goals, to be brave when having medical tests. Patti inspired me in so many ways. She was a good friend to me and my life has a huge hole now. I have bought a rose in honour of my friend - a reminder that Patti touched my life, lifted me up when I needed to be lifted, and that I was blessed to have known her. Tim, how I wish I could be with you to comfort you in some small way. You will remain in my prayers and you and Patti will remain in my heart.
Patti - I love you and thankyou for being my friend. Life won't be the same without you, your emails and your phone calls and laughter.
With sincere sorrow - from Fay
Diana Ferrante <dianaferrante@charter.net> from NC
Contributed on December 26, 2004
It is so sad to me to learn that Patti has crossed the finish line. She had such a spirit about her, and I've missed her since she left the list.
Tim, I know you will miss her terribly. We all will.
Love, Diana
Michele T <zmommygroups@comcast.net> from Philadelphia, PA
Contributed on December 26, 2004
I am so sorry to hear that Patti has finished the race. I never got the chance to meet Patti but I did get to speak to her once on the telephone. It was a very easy conversation, like we had known each other a long time. And while we hadn't been in contact for some time I feel as if I lost a friend. Patti was so strong and determined, refusing to give in to anyone's expectations of her disease. Tim, I send you my deepest sympathies, I imagine this lost is huge for you. And Patti, you can rest now.
Cyndee <doccynderella@adelphia.net> from Pittsburgh
Contributed on December 26, 2004
I am deeply saddened by the death of Patti. When I first met her here at EOTP she gave me such courage. I remember her words of encouragement, as she had fought the beast off so many times before, and alwasy with such optimism that she would win and continue to win regardless of what the beast did to her body.
Patti, my dear friend... may you live in everlasting peace. You have done all you can in this world, may the one beyond grant you rest.
You will deeply be missed.
Cyndee
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