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Tribute | We remember Susan Vera
I
have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept
the faith.
Submit a tribute for Susan Vera.
 Alisa Davis from Cocoa,FL
Contributed on October 15, 2009
Mom,
It has now been almost 8 years since you have been away from us. I can tell you that it does not get better and I still think about you often. I tell my two daughters about they're grandmother as much as i possibly can.The other day I got some horrible news that Donna, (my mother-in-law) has cancer and it is not good. I just don't know if I can bear to go through this again. I am trying to be strong for my husband and kids but I already know what to expect and I am scared to death. It's times like this I wish I could turn to you for advice and you're not there. I am always so scared ...what if it happenns to me? My husband hates it when I talk like that but it is so hard not to have that running in the back of my mind. What if like you, I am ripped away from my husband and my children? What If I can't see my two beautiful daughters grow up? I guess it is not a great attitude to have. But I will be strong for them and Mom, I love you so much. I can't describe how much i would love to see you again and I will one day....so wait for me mom.
Love Always & Forever,
Alisa
crystal Vera <xxxpoisoncupcakexxx@yahoo.com> from florida
Contributed on January 10, 2008
mom,
it has been almost 6 years and i still think of u everyday. i love and miss you mom. love your oldest daughter
crystal
Suelane Guza <s27guza@aol.com> from columbus,ohio
Contributed on December 31, 2007
As an old year,is coming to a close and a New Year begins,I wanted to say,you are remembered,never to be forgotten.You are an angel,who I am sure,watches closely over Al,your children and grandchildren. Although it is not physically,I am sure you are there,in their hearts,memories,and the legacy you left.
Mary Anne Forrest <mailife49@ono.com> from spain
Contributed on June 6, 2005
You put up a great fight, and I was really moved reading your story, I just hope there is light at the end of the tunnel which makes it all worthwhile for you....my deepest respect goes to you for your bravery and my sympathy to your doting husband.
Mary Anne
Alisa Davis <alisa@sunnyfla.us> from Palm bay fl
Contributed on Febuary 15, 2005
Hello mom. I was just reading what all of these nice people said about you and I wish they really knew the real you. I still think about you everyday even though it will be 3 devestating years this month. I still miss you as much as I did when it was one day. I love you with all of my heart my beautiful mother. I see so much of you in your son and in my littlest daughter Kaylie Patricia Davis. I will always tell my children stories about the grandmother they didn't get to know. I love you mom.
Always,
Alisa
Suelane Guza <s27guza@aol.com> from columbus,ohio
Contributed on December 30, 2004
Almost three years,have gone by since your family let you go.I know they still miss you terribly and you are forever,in our hearts,always in our prayers.Please keep us in yours,and continue to watch over us.Know that your beautiful family and grandbabies are ok.Put your arms around your sweet Al and let him know that he has people who think of him and pray for him daily.
Suelane Guza <s27guza@aol.com> from Columbus,Ohio
Contributed on April 4, 2004
I always said when I was talking to your Al,that I could see your face and feel your spirit.I would like to send you a message,now and I think somehow you will hear me. It is a hard time for me;my Dave was diagnosed on Easter Sunday and I know that the holidays,no matter which one it is are hard for your family.Al always told me,what a special way you had of making them all special for him,your kids and grandbabies. He is trying so hard,to do that,now. Do me a favor,although I already know you do this daily.Put your arms around him and give him some extra peace and comfort. Let him know how much he is loved and appreciated.I never knew you,Susan,but you are in my heart,thoughts,and prayers daily. Please keep letting us know in your special way,that you and all of our loved ones that are where you are,in a place where there is no more pain or sickness,are with us daily.You were a beautiful lady here on earth and as an angel I can only imagine how much more beautiful you must be.
Suelane Guza <s27guza@aol.com> from Columbus,Ohio
Contributed on January 3, 2004
It is nearing the second anniversary of the finish of your race. You fought a good fight,you ran a good race,you crossed the finish line.You ended one journey,only to start another. You are still in the hearts and souls of those who knew and loved you. I know you can see,Al,your beautiful children and grandchildren. Do me a favor,Susan. Whisper in Al's ear that he is not forgotten and that he will always be a special friend. Always and forever,Sue Guza
Esther <cinamon41@aol.com> from Lowell, Mass
Contributed on Febuary 28, 2003
A year has gone by and I miss Sue everyday. Still seems unbelievable that she is gone. Alisa, I'm sure your mom held that baby before she was born. A Christmas baby, your mother loved that holiday. She would go all out for all of her kids. Her love is in that baby. Al, I'm sure this year has been rough for you. I listen to a song by Josh Groban called, "To Where You Are" and it reminds me of you and Sue. It's a beautiful song. We love you all and hope to see you soon.
God Bless,
Esther
Karen P. <karen@eyesontheprize.org> from Alberta, Canada
Contributed on Febuary 28, 2003
To Al, and all of Susan's family ...
On this sad anniversary, I am struck by how quickly a year has gone by. I am sure it has been tough on all of you; I am sure there hasn't been a day that you didn't think of her. My thoughts are with you all,
Best wishes - from all of us at EOTP,
Karen P.
AL VERA <al57king@aol.com> from Cocoa, Florida
Contributed on September 2, 2002
In Loving Memory of
Susan P. Vera
Born: September 2 1961
Entered Heaven: February 28 2002
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY"
To a Wonderful Wife, Mother and
Grandmother;
God saw you getting tired,
a cure not meant to be
he put his arms around you,
and whispered "Come to Me".
With tearful eyes we watched you,
sadly fade away.
Although we love you dearly,
we could not help you stay.
A golden heart stopped breathing,
hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove
He only takes the best!
Happy 1st Birthday With Jesus
ALWAYS & FOREVER In our Hearts
Your Loving Husband, Children, & Grandchildren
Michelle Clark from PSJ, Florida
Contributed on May 14, 2002
Susan a mother loved and definitely not forgotten.
I didnt know Shaina's mother as much as i wanted to. I didnt think the cancer was as serious as i found out. I thought it would be all fine and she could come home. After reading Susans story i now understand how much pain she has went through and I know her family is going through some rough times but i know they will get thorugh it. Im am 13 yrs. old and is best friends with Susans middle daughter Shaina (15). I have tried to talk to her about it alot knowing that it is hard but I think the best way to get over something is to talk about it. I love hearing the stories Shaina would tell me about her mother. I wish i would have got to know her better be for she passed away. I wish the family well and i want them to know my heart and love is with them.
Alisa- I am so happy you are doing so well in your life. Even though i dont think you like me that much :)
Al- Your the BEST!!! You'll make it through
I Love You All and Wish you the Best
<3 always,
Michelle
I LOVE YOU SHAINA BFF
Suelane Guza <s27guza@aol.com> from Columbus,Ohio
Contributed on May 14, 2002
"Don't be afraid,close your eyes. Lay it all down;don't you cry.Can't you see I'm going where I can see the sun rise. I've been talkin'to my angel and he says that it's allright." I didn't know Susan personally,but I feel like I have come to know her in spirit through her husband Al through conversations we've had on the internet. He joined my group Widows and Widowers Cancer Loss. The love that Al has for his wife,children,and grandchildren is felt in my heart every time I speak with him. I believe God brought us together to help each other,even though we may never meet personally.I too am a survivor of the loss of a spouse to this cruel disease.My husband Dave passed away in May 2001. We share a journey that we did not ask to travel. To Susan's children: Your Dad will be o.k. He is sad,but don't be afraid.He is doing the best he can. To her grandchildren:You are her legacy.Be proud that she was in your life,even if it was only for a short while. She is still around all of you in spirit. Talk to her,she will listen. To everyone that was a part of her family:Idon't know any of you personally,but through whatever destiny we have been brought together. Please know if any of you ever feel like talking to me I would be more than willing. And finally and most important to Susan:You were and are loved more than you know. You are in a different place now and it will be but a blink of an eye before you see Al and your babies. If you see Dave tell him hello. "Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. Pray,smile,think of me.Don't miss me too much. The view is nice and I'm doing fine."
Lenora <JoyOfLiving@aol.com> from Maryland
Contributed on April 11, 2002
I have read your story so many times. I know that you are at peace and happy. Your family will always be in my prayers.
I'm so glad to have known you at EOTP.
Lenora
AL VERA <Al57king@aol.com> from Florida
Contributed on April 9, 2002
Hi Love. It's going to be 6 weeks this Thursday since our life's had changed. It might as well be 6 days for me. I visit you every day, and tell you what's happening in our life's. I long for you almost every hour of every day. I sure hope they find a cure for cancer soon. All the children are doing remarkably well, considering their circumstances. I'm having a real hard time of it, but you made me strong and I'll get through this somehow. Our friends are very supportive and you would be very proud! I have slowly gone back to work, and am pacing myself. I pray for you every day and ask God to give you a big embrace for me. I never realized how hard it would be to live without you. You have been such a big part of who I am, and without you, I am not the same man. I am so happy for the 23 years of memories I had with you and the 6 wonderful children we shared. I often look at your pictures, and am so happy I have many. I LOVE YOU SUSAN, AND MISS YOU SO. WE ALL DO.
Your Loving Husband
ALWAYS & FOREVER -AL!
Claire Hank <clairehank@webtv.net> from Oak Lawn,Ill.
Contributed on March 17, 2002
Please accept my sympathy on the loss of Susan. My daughter died of the same cancer five and a half months ago. My prayers are with you.
Claire Hank
Lynne Wendling from Merritt Island,Fl
Contributed on March 14, 2002
To Sue,
I have known you for nine years, since when I was twelve years old. Since then, your family and I have been almost inseperable. You were like a second mother to me. I will always love and miss you very much and realize that now you are not in pain anymore. That makes me feel better to know that and also makes it easier for me to let you go, even though it is very hard. I will never forget you. I know that you are in a better place and I will do my best to be strong for your family. I know I will see you again and I am waiting for that day.
I love You Always!
Lynne
Maureen Presky/Basile <bulma07462@yahoo.com.> from Vernon New Jersey
Contributed on March 9, 2002
Have you ever wished you had a someone that was not critical of your speech,thoughts,actions or reactions?
Someone who could make you see in your darkest moments, There will be light and you will make it through? That your problems could always have been worse.?
Have you ever wished that you could laugh when your heart was broken and when you spoke to this person a smile came to your face.
And when this person came and told you they met MR.Right you know they did from the look in there eyes and the smile on there face you could feel the beating from there heart and hear it in the tone of there voice.
Then the birth of there first child you knew it was love,On the birth of there second child you knew it was love,On the birth of there third child you knew it was love,On the birth of there forth child you knew it was love,on the birth of there fifth child you knew it was love,On the birth of there sixth child you knew it was love.
And the birth of there first grandchild you knew it was love,the birth of there second grandchild you knew it was love,The birth of the third grandchild you knew it was love.
And you knew "It Was Love"
I consider myself a very very lucky and Blessed
indivdual because I met this person 28 years ago
on roller skates and I have heard and seen all that most people only wish for I met SUE.
and I have heard and seen all of these things that I have spoke of even in our last telephone conversation.
I know that she was and is an Angel sent from GOD because when I rember and think of Sue a smile comes to my face and when I think of love I think of Al and her six beautiful children and grandchildren Also I know the world is a better place because God left them here and I truly belive it is for those who wish.
Till we meet again and thanks I'll always smile.
Maureen
Crystal Marie Vera <Kristalleyez@aol.com> from Florida
Contributed on March 9, 2002
I am Susan's oldest daughter,Crystal. My mother was a very strong and brave woman,who loved her life.I will miss her everyday till I am with her again.She was the best mother I could ask for,and the best grandmother to my 2 children.She is with GOD now in a more wonderful place then can be imagined, but still I want her back.Thank God that I had her in my life...She will be missed!!!
Nilsa <wackyzak60@aol.com> from New York
Contributed on March 9, 2002
To my Brother Al & his Family,
It is very hard for me to put my feelings in writing so bare with me. I want you all to know that I prayed with you for Sue's life. I prayed to GOD that he give her strength and courage to continue her fight, that her suffering from this terrible illness would end and that she would beat this illness and live a wonderful life with all of you. I can't say that GOD didn't answer all my prayers for we all know he gave her strength and courage to fight till the end, he did indeed stop her suffering and she will live an eternal life of peace. Unfortunately to answer these prayers he had to take Susan to a greater place.
With great prayers answered we must deal with the loss of her presence. For every tear you shed I shed two, your hearts are broken and mine breaks for you. But I find comfort in knowing Sue's life was not in vein. She was a wonderful caring person who gave herself to her family and friend's. Her connection with EOTP also proves this. To all of you involved in EOTP may GOD BLESS YOU!
Now I will continue to pray, I am praying for GOD to guide you and give you the courage and strength you need to mourn your loss and move on in life. I know that Sue is watching over you and will continue her great works from up above. She will be in our hearts forever.
With deepest sympathy,
Nilsa
(Sister in-law, Sister & Aunt)
Alisa Vera-Davis <alisaliane2002@aol.com> from Florida
Contributed on March 8, 2002
This is a tribute to my mother which I love with all of my heart. You will be missed and always remembered for your bravery. You are the most beautiful women I have ever seen. All of your children love you. You are not dead. You live on in all of us. Daddy is taking it hard but I will be here to watch over him. I will always be here for the family. And I will always tell my daughter Alexis what a wonderful woman her grandmother was and how much you loved her. I will let her know that you are an angel in heaven, and that you are watching over her every day of her life. I will always love you and miss you mommy.
Your loving daughter,
Alisa Liane Vera-Davis
krystine
Contributed on March 8, 2002
i would just like to tell the family of susan vera how very sorry i am for your loss. Although i did not have the honor of knowing Susan, her story was a saviour for me when i found out i had cervical cancer. She wrote such beautiful words and they helped me very much to regain my sanity during a sad time in my life. May her family live on in peace knowing that susan is resting and happy in heaven. And susan "thank you so much for sharing your story, your words will live on forever and help many other women like me who feel alone and devastated, thank you"
krystine 20 year old.
cervical cancer
Judy Mello <jmello@lake-coe.k12.ca.us> from northern California
Contributed on March 6, 2002
I am so sorry to hear that Susan died from this terrible disease. It is so sad that she seemed to do everything "right" as far as treatment, but she couldn't beat it. I am so very very sorry. Though I never knew her, as I read her story, I found myself nodding in agreement. Yes I knew how she felt. Yes I understood her terrible fears, yes I understood how she didn't want to leave her children and grandchildren. Yes I understood her husband's fear and pain and her own. None of us goes through this alone. The trauma of cancer spreads through a family like it spreads through the body. I never knew her, but we all knew her. She was us, and we are her. My heart was moved with sorrow that the world lost such a beautiful, eloquent (I admired how well she wrote about her situation), and loving person. Please know I send my love and condolences to all affected by her passing. I believe with all my heart that the Lord has prepared a place for us all beyond this veil of tears and she is walking and living in the peace of God and preparing heaven for those she loved as she prepared her home for those on earth. Love, comfort and peace that passes all understanding to all who knew and loved her, Judy Mello, Stage 2A endometrial cancer TAHBSO 5/2000 and still dancing with NED
AL VERA <AL57KING@AOL.COM> from FLORIDA
Contributed on March 5, 2002
To the sweetest woman I ever had the pleasure of sharing life's joy's and sorrows, how my heart aches for you since you left us on Thursday, February 28, 2002. I stood by your side to the very end as I promised you I always would. It was without a doubt, the saddest moment of my life. With your last breath a part of my life left with you and was replaced with a hollow space in my heart. I felt so helpless as I watched your children sob terribly as you left us. You have been so courageous in your fight with this awful disease that took you from us, never letting your hurt, pain, and fear interfere with our everyday life's. You where truly the bravest woman I have ever known, and I am so proud of you. The emptiness in my heart is testimony to the Love that existed between us. I told you to save a spot for me in heaven as I gave you my last kiss. I am most thankful for the six most wonderful children we had together, and will always take care of them as I did you. As our grandchildren grow I will always tell them about a special lady, their grandmother, of how she loved them so and is truly an angel with God.
Oh my Susan, your service was beautiful and full of friends, family, and people I have never met. We are drawing strength and comfort from each other, so do not worry, we will be OK. I thank you for being who you where, a loyal and loving wife, and the most loving mother anyone could ever want. I mourn your loss and will be forever waiting to embrace you once again. So I will not so good-bye, but instead, I will see you soon my love, where we will again embrace and be together always and forever!
Till we meet again!
Your Loving Husband
AL VERA
Nancy W. <springleafe@aol.com> from Pennsylvania
Contributed on March 5, 2002
To all of Susan's family, My sincerest condolences to all of you at this very trying time. Susan was an inspiration to me personally and I feel much sorrow at her passing. Her suffering now has come to an end and her soul is at peace. I will never forget Susan or the way she gave of herself to support others through their own journey with cancer. She will be missed very much. Nancy...1Thess.4:13 Acts24:15
Esther Vera <cinamon41@aol.com> from Lowell, Mass
Contributed on March 5, 2002
Sue was a strong woman, a wife who loved her husband and a mother who loved her children and grandchildren. They were her life. Sue was my friend and sister in law. I admired her strength as she fought the cancer. She didn't let it keep her down. It was a very sad day when God called her home. My heart breaks for her family. Sue and Al had a strong love for each other. I will miss the talks and laughs we would have. She will always be remembered in our minds and in our hearts. Sue is at peace now.
Jas.1:12
Blessed is the woman who perseveres under trail, because when she has stood the test, she will receive the Crown of Life that God has promised to those who love him.
Ann Hargrove <maw607@aol.com> from Long Beach, NY
Contributed on March 5, 2002
Dear Al & Family,
Our hearts go out to you. Sue fought the battle and we give her credit for how far she went. We will always remember her. Hold your heads up and keep the faith. Sue is no longer suffering and is in a better place now.
BONNIE DOPKOWSKI from PITTSBURGH, PA.
Contributed on March 4, 2002
DEAR AL AND FAMILY, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT OUR DEAR SUSAN. SHE WAS A VERY WARM AND CARING PERSON. WE WILL ALL MISS HER VERY MUCH. I SEND ALL MY LOVE AND PRAYERS TO ALL HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS. LOVE BONNIE
Shirley Schutt <shirleyschutt@huntel.net> from Nebraska
Contributed on March 4, 2002
To the family of Susan,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy of your loss of Susan. She will always have a special place in the hearts of all the listsisters at EOTP.
May it soften your sorrow to know that so many are sharing in your grief.
She is now in a far better place, free from pain and suffering.
God's Blessing to you all,
Shirley
Sharon Lake from Memphis,Tn
Contributed on March 4, 2002
To Susan's Family,I was deeply saddned to hear of Susan's passing, my prayers and thoughts are with you at this most diffcult time.
Much Love,
Sharon
Barbera <barbera263@earthlink.net> from Poughkeepsie, New York
Contributed on March 4, 2002
Dear Al and Children,
I am deeply saddened by the news of Susan's passing. Al you have been such a loving and caring husband, I am sure she knew she was blessed to have you by her side through this difficult illness. You children, oh how she loved you. You were her joy, along with the grand children you two older girls gave her. She was so proud of you all.
I will ready miss Susan, with her e-mails of support to her list sister's and myself. I will miss being able to send her a card to brighten her day.
But I know she is at peace now. I have you all in prayer as you deal with her passing. She will be missed by many.
prayerfully yours,
barbera
Rena Nicewonder <renanice@aol.com> from Panama City, FL
Contributed on March 4, 2002
Dear Al & Family,
I am so terribly sorry to hear of Susan's passing.
It has broken my heart. I pray that you all will
find a peace during this sorrowfull time.
Susan was such an inspiration to all of us. I know
that she will be missed so very much. Even though
I never did meet Susan in person, I felt as though I knew her. I so looked forward to reading
all of her post to the list.
My prayers and thoughts will be with you all during this time.
Love to you all,
Rena Nicewonder
PiretT <pirett@kbfi.ee> from Florida
Contributed on March 4, 2002
dear family and friends,
when you lose somebody you love and care about- it is always too early, especially when this someone is not old enough to go...
Please accept my sincere condolences for Susan, as she will be missed much in my heart and thoughts. I felt close to her, just chatting on the net, like she was person I knew for years. She changed the world we live in.
We will miss here much.
my deepest symphaty,
PiretT
Michele T <zmommy@earthlink.net> from Philadelphia, PA
Contributed on March 4, 2002
I was so terribly saddened to hear of Susan's death. She was such a strong and positive force on our support list. I missed her a lot when she became too sick to post. She gave so much of herself to all the listsisters here. I send my love and condolences to all of her friends and family. She will be very missed by so many.
Lola Bogue <Lola@eyesontheprize.org> from Salt Lake City, Utah; USA
Contributed on March 4, 2002
Dear Al and children;
Susan will be missed tremendously. She brought hope and life to the community of EyesOnThePrize.org. Her inner force to live inspite of all odds and never ending hope was inspirational to me. She was truly a bright light. I will be remember her always, with the utmost respect.
I am so very sorry and saddened for the loss you have all suffered. I can only hope that in the days ahead, you will gain some comfort from the fact that Susan was greatly loved by all of us who only knew here as "Susan V". I'm so sorry.
Love and prayers to you all,
Lola
Georgia <ashbroke@earthlink.net> from Foxborough MA
Contributed on March 4, 2002
To all of Susan's family ----
You have all fought the good fight keeping her company on this journey and in time I hope you can realize some peace and healing in your own thoughts and emotions.
Susan was as much a part of EyesOnThePrize as anyone we have had the privilege to know, and I believe she felt we were part of her too. So on this sad day, a bit of all of us goes with her, and we reach out to you all in deepest sympathy.
She really was a "sun" goddess, bringing light to our list, and a sunny day to those in need.
Love to you all,
Georgia
(p.s. as one of the listmoms, a special thank you to family members for keeping us updated on Susan's condition, so we could keep her in our hearts and minds daily)
Iris Lloyd <gamom1984@aol.com> from McDonough, GA
Contributed on March 4, 2002
Phillippians 3:20,21 May you feel His presence during this time.
Teresa Cruse from Nevada
Contributed on March 4, 2002
Dear Al and Children:
There are no words adequate to capture the feelings of sadness that we all felt upon learning of Susan's death. I can't imagine the pain that you are suffering, but I wanted you to know that we loved Susan and will miss her terribly. Our prayers will be with you all as you endure this very difficult time.
Julia Lange <miracle44@webtv.net> from Sarasota, Florida
Contributed on March 3, 2002
Dear Al,
I know that you loved your wife Susan and did not want to lose her. My tears flow for you and your children. She is now wrapped in the loving arms of God, safe from her sickness, safe from all of the pain that this life unfortunately dealt her and in turn you and your children. I weep for your family this evening. Be strong, continue to take care of the children that you and Susan created. Know that she is now safe and at perfect peace. I am sure that your wife Susan left this world better than she found it. May God watch over you and your family.
Julie
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